Make your blog unique

Why do you have to make your blog unique? you may asked. The answer is to attract more readers and make your blog become more active and alive. This is what every blogger want to see in their blog. It doesn't matter if you don't want more reader but what's the point if you write a good article and no one read it?

The most important ingredient on how to make the blog unique is the blog content. Your blog content should be written in a valuable manner that provide advantage to your readers. The valuable thing about your blog and make it unique is your ideas. Let your reader know about your opinions, compare and contrast in more detail. The way you give ideas, style of writing and words are really important.

However, what is your idea?

Creating Your Very First Website or Blog

In order to make money online, what you have to do first is to own a website or blog. This is what I have learn today. Create your first website or blog can be a little bit difficult for you but the out come will pay off the hardship and when you can start using it to earn money online. The key to success on internet marketing is to have a successful website. And how to create a success website is what I am going to show you in a second.

There is nothing to worry about how to create a website or blog. There are lots of free site that offer for free. Such as blogger or wordpress, these two are the most popular site for creating your own blog for free. You know? you can even make your own now! just one or two hour if not more then this, you will get one. What you need to do is to follow step by step with a simple click to make your very first blog. Start today and learn how it really work. There are something I want to tell you more but going to write in later post. Good luck with your blog!

The Value of Higher Education

What do you think that higher education can contribute into your life and make a huge difference? What are the value of higher education?

You may say it can make our life easier and more comfortable then ever in some ways such as it can help us to get a better job and make more money. We will be more noticed, recognized and  praised.  Indeed these are what we are agree and always thinking of after finish our degree. But let me add some points that you may not think of.

I recently read one story of a young mother who get divorced since she was 18 with a two years old son. This was a remarkable story of how important to get higher education. Because she was so young and has't got any degree in hand even high school diploma. She was having a hard time with her husband and soon the argument come to an end by separated. Being a young mother raising a family alone seems to be difficult, it was hard for her to find money and support her son. She got a financial issue that she couldn't find enough food for herself coz she just tried to feed her son. She became weak and weak till the point that her friends recognized. Her friend keep her in touch and help her to get into what they called Aid to Family with Department Children which make it possible for her to continue her study.

A few years later she got degree and looking back while she was eighteen with two years old child. It wouldn't be possible for her to get into college, would it? I don't think so. But because of her commitment, her vision about her future and her son's future she tried to make a difference. She said "I want him to have a good life, to have everything he want and education. And I couldn't provide these for him unless I got myself educated. So I keep thinking and thinking if I could get degree and make money then we will have a good life. Then I went to school and work really hard." Her vision had fulfill and she reach her goal. She was not only helping herself but her son, her friend and people around her. She made people think of her as a great person and follow her step. She became a consultant and motivate people to keep trying, face the problem and never give up.

Be Loyal

After spending sometime joining a gossip talk with some friends, I realized that it's not the fun thing to do and should never be part of the gossip group again.

We are friends coz we have so many things in common and therefore we tend to do thing together. We enjoy together and suffer together. This is such a true friendship that we think we will never ever loose. However,have you ever heard that your very closed friends talk bad things behind your back in some reasons? How did you feel? Hurt? and vow to hate that friend for the rest of your life? I am sure you must felt it and me too.

I'll never forget the look of betrayal written all over my friend's face. And it make me felt so bad after all. Let me tell you one thing i learn from this lesson. The thing is if you betray your friends in any reason or just for fun by talking behind your friend's back then you are only hurting yourself in two ways.

One is if he/she heard your talk he/she definitely feel not good to you and maybe thinking to make some troubles to you back. The second one is you make withdrawals from everyone of trust and they will never believe in you again.

Please remember that loyal people keep secrets and avoid gossip!

Birthday Wishes

HAPPY HAPPY

HAPPY

BIRTHDAY TO YOU

MAY THIS BIRTHDAY BRING YOU JOYS AND HAPPINESS

SUCCESS OF ALL TIME AND AMAZING THINGS HAPPEN TO YOU 

THIS BIRTHDAY WISHES GO TO A FRIEND OF MINE WHO ALWAYS SHARING NO MATTER GOOD NEWS OR BAD. IN ANY CONDITIONS, SHE WILL ALWAYS SMILE AND SMILE! 

THANKS FOR BEING SUCH A GREAT FRIEND!

First Things First

It's ashamed to take a supplementary exam for this month. I felt like I was running out of control. It was my first time ever that take supplementary exam in university. Asking to myself and look back to the past about what have I done.These things come out: lack of time management, lack of prioritizing things, and lack of self control. These have taken controlled over myself and what I did was completely wrong. I chose not to review the lesson for exam, but learning guitar, hanging out with friends instead of joining the class and reading other stuffs rather then reading assignment project.Then the exam day almost arrived, I hadn't been prepared anything yet. I couldn't concentrate on lesson the night before. I fell the test.  It was a really eyes-opening experience. Now I know how important it is to learn how to prioritize things and balance between school work and leisure.

Honestly, everyone at the age of us, I think, are very busy from day to day. You've got lots of things to do such as: reviewing lesson after school or doing homework, you've gotta spend sometime with friends, doing housework and some of you maybe have to work to earn money for self survival like me and a lots of other things you can say. However, even there are lots of things to do and you think you don't have enough time to do it the best thing to do, I recommend, is to learn to prioritize your tasks and putting first things first.

By learning to prioritize things and managing time, you will be able to put your first things come first and make your life be in controlled. You will never miss the most important thing that should be done.

Let's start by having a small goal or doing a To-Do list which will guide you through all the day. Spending a few minutes before going to bed and think about what you should do tomorrow and put them in chronological order on a small piece of paper or note book. Then go back to your note regularly to check whether you have finish all of the points you have put the night before or not. If yes, cross it out and say "Yeah, I've done it. You will feel great because of your accomplishment. Do it everyday for around 15 days in a roll you will get into habit. Not more then one month after getting into the habits, you will see a progress and know that you are in control and things are getting done easily.

Acting in the Face of Fear

There is a question: To Be or Not To Be? Have you ever decided to do something that dare not to do before but recently you put aside of your fear and act as no one can hurt you? Honestly, whenever I encounter a problem and need to decided I always say to myself like "Should I do it or not?" then I say "It's not the end of the world." I gonna try this!

Acting in the face of fear will never be easy, but afterward you'll always be glad you did it. I remember the first time I speak English with a foreigner in my work place, I felt pretty nervous but then I though, "Why not leave my comfort zone and give it a try?" Little by little I gain self confidence and now I can say I do not feel any nervous as before. It makes me feel good to talk and I can state my opinion well in front of those people.

Some people say: Never let your fears make your decisions! Yeah, fear is the worth thing of all that can trigger ourselves down. But why do we fear? Why don't we give away our fear? It's a common emotion that everyone has. I remember the time I had a crush on a girl which I should not mention her name here, that I never asked her out and never dear to say good to her. Honestly, it was because of my fears whispered, "She my not like you. She may have a boyfriend already and who know she may think that you are such fool stupid person who never look at yourself and dare to ask her out." This feeling kick me down and never dare to date a girl.

You see fear is an extremely strong enemy within ourselves.So don't let your fear make your decision, you make it. There is a quote say: It's not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves."

So if you feel like you want to:

• make a new friend, do it
• date a girl, do it
• speak to a person whom you never dare to, do it
• try something new, do it
• break an old habit, do it
• write a thank you letter to a friend, do it

Or even if you want to say I love you to a person whom you love.... Do it!... even your fear and doubts cream out to you, "You'll fail," "Don't try."

Never let your fear makes your decisions. You make them. You know what? when you have done something that you dare not to do before, you will feel a great sense of personal accomplishment and proud of yourself. 

Download for Free?

Are you looking for study materials for free?

On my blog description said "I want to share though, ideas, stuffs and much more". However, I realized that I haven't shared any significant things to you yet. I just have shared some ideas, and some inspire posts for our daily life. But today let's make the post difference. As one proverb said "Give your child a fish he eat a day, teach him how to fish he eat a whole life". And now i gonna teach you how to find materials on Internet for free, absolutely free!

What I am saying is all about Torrent. I think some of you have already know it and may used it for longer than me, though. There is a torrent search engine called: torrentz.eu where you can search and download torrent file for free in any type of stuff such as book, audio book, music, program, movie and much more.

What you need to do is you have to download one program called µtorrent and install it on your computer. It's a very tiny program that allow you to download torrent file. Please follow the link to download the program.

Remember when you found your interesting stuff on the site please looking for the phrase: download this torrent to download it. First, it will download torrent file then you have to double clicks on the file to download your stuff. You will be able to see this program picture if your downloading is working.

I know it's a little bit hard for those who have never used it before so I got a torrent survival guide in case you want to learn more about it.

Please feel free to contact me if you got any problems with downloading.

Enjoy your free stuffs!!!

Make Your Life Extraordinary

Life is short so make sure that you live your life with a meaningful way and extraordinary. We know it for sure that one day we are going to stop breathing and then turn cold and finally die. Everyone cannot escape this nature of life. Therefore, we are not supposed to take thing for granted in every second in life.

It's said that life is a mission, not a career. A career is only a profession. So everyone of us have its own mission. You have your own and so do I. As you know that Martin Luther King's mission was to ensure civil rights for all people. Gandhi's mission was to liberate 300 million Indians. Mother Teresa's mission was to clothe the naked and feed the hungry.

These are the great of all time example for us to follow. However, we do not have to do like them. We do not have to change the world to have a mission. It's said that "Most of us will never do great thing, but we can do small thing in a great way." They said most of us not all of us. Hence, you can do small thing in a great way and who know maybe you can do great thing too. It's not a matter of who you are, or what you do. It's a matter of what you think.

Let's make your life extraordinary!

Begin With The End-In-Mind

Begin with the end in mind means you have a clear goal or purpose in what you are doing. You brainstorm before you write, you know where you want to go before you get in the car. That's part of life and these are things you do everyday and maybe you don't even noticed. When you begin with the end in mind, you get focus further to your future and it makes you think about what going to take to get there, what you need to do to get success.

Let's imagine who you want to be, where you want to be and who you want to be with. Then try to see the whole picture of you dream life and think what it's going to take to get there, what you need to do and what you need to change. By doing like this you will find all of the ideas and those ideas are something like steps to your goal. That's how you begin with the end in mind.

Self-Awareness

Have you ever stand apart from yourself and observe your thoughts and actions? Have you ever taken time to think about what constantly happening in your life? What are you doing? and how it may affect your relationship?

Sometimes, life is moving so fast without noticed and we haven't controlled or making a good decision on what we were doing. That's why we need to push a pause bottom on out life  and think. But how can we push our life to stay still for a few second and take this time to think? You know we are lucky that we have a special tool that we were born with and it's called self-awareness. With this tool, we can stand apart from ourselves and evaluate our actions and thoughts. We can used this tool to criticize ourselves and make a better decision.

Let me share you a story of mine that I have gone through for the last few weeks to illustrate how this tool work:

There was a girl who is very attractive to me. She was polite and kind. She is not so pretty but I like her attitudes, and her characters. Once I got her phone numbers, I started to contact her. At first, it went smoothly as I hope. Soon I show my feeling to her that I love her, she started to change her attitudes. She wouldn't reply my sms and even answer my calls. I stared to feel pretty bad and fool. Later on I noticed that there are a lot of guys going for her and maybe I am not good enough to compete with them. For almost one week without any reply on phone and even talk on face to face, I started to think about what going on now. I asked myself "What am I doing? Am I supposed to spend more time fooling around though she show no interested? Why can't I do anything but thinking about her? Look at you why you are so dump lazy and procrastinating? Then I answered maybe because of my bad mood? Or I can say because of my broken heart? Oh... it really is! It effected every thing on me. My relationship at work place and even myself seems to be getting worse. I shouldn't keep doing like this any more I gonna do something now"

You see what am I doing? I push myself for a second and standing apart from myself and thinking, evaluating and measuring about my actions. This is called self-awareness. By using my self-awareness, I can recognize that I was allowing my bad mood because of my relationship with her to affect my good relationship with my friends and even affect my personalities.

Listen to Your Languages

Every people including me and you also, i think, always think that we are a good person, we are a proactive and not a reactive person.But how can we know whether it is true or not?

There is the best way to find out about yourself whether you are a proactive or reactive person. Start by listen to your daily language you speak and your gesture you use. It can show you what type of person you are.

Reactive person are usually not take responsibility for their action and always use this type of languages: That's me, that's just the way i am, I can't, there is nothing i can do, you ruined my day, etc.

However, proactive people are those who take responsibility for their action, they are not easily offended. They always find a way to make it happen not just wait for it to happen. They think before they act and focus on things they can control and do not worry about what they can't.

Baby Steps

Baby Steps is a kind of powerful tool that is small, easy to do and you can apply it into practice immediately after you have read. Even though the steps are small, but it really can help you to reach your big goals. Little by little you can make a big change. So below is a set of baby steps that I take from the book.

BABY STEPS

Keep Promises to Yourself

1. Get  up when you planned to for 3 day in a row.
2. Identify one easy task that needs to be done today, like putting in a batch of laundry, or reading a book for an English assignment. Decide when you will do it. Now, keep your word and get it done.

Do Random Acts of Service

1. Sometime today, do a kind of anonymous deed, like writing a thank-you note, taking out of the trash, or making someone's bed.
2. Look around and find something you can do to make a difference, like cleaning up a  park in your neighborhood, volunteering in a senior citizens center, or reading to someone who can't.

Be Gentle With Yourself

Being gentle with yourself mean forgive yourself when you are making mistakes and give youself time to grow in what you are doing. Don't expect to be a perfectionist. Make as many mistaks as you can, but learn from them, learn what went wrong and why. Make a mend if you have to then drop it and move on. Don't stay with the past, the past is just the past. Laugh at the stupid things you did and correct it later. As Whitney Houston put it: "Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all."