What do you think that higher education can contribute into your life and make a huge difference? What are the value of higher education?
You may say it can make our life easier and more comfortable then ever in some ways such as it can help us to get a better job and make more money. We will be more noticed, recognized and praised. Indeed these are what we are agree and always thinking of after finish our degree. But let me add some points that you may not think of.
I recently read one story of a young mother who get divorced since she was 18 with a two years old son. This was a remarkable story of how important to get higher education. Because she was so young and has't got any degree in hand even high school diploma. She was having a hard time with her husband and soon the argument come to an end by separated. Being a young mother raising a family alone seems to be difficult, it was hard for her to find money and support her son. She got a financial issue that she couldn't find enough food for herself coz she just tried to feed her son. She became weak and weak till the point that her friends recognized. Her friend keep her in touch and help her to get into what they called Aid to Family with Department Children which make it possible for her to continue her study.
A few years later she got degree and looking back while she was eighteen with two years old child. It wouldn't be possible for her to get into college, would it? I don't think so. But because of her commitment, her vision about her future and her son's future she tried to make a difference. She said "I want him to have a good life, to have everything he want and education. And I couldn't provide these for him unless I got myself educated. So I keep thinking and thinking if I could get degree and make money then we will have a good life. Then I went to school and work really hard." Her vision had fulfill and she reach her goal. She was not only helping herself but her son, her friend and people around her. She made people think of her as a great person and follow her step. She became a consultant and motivate people to keep trying, face the problem and never give up.
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Friday, June 17, 2011
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Be Loyal
After spending sometime joining a gossip talk with some friends, I realized that it's not the fun thing to do and should never be part of the gossip group again.
We are friends coz we have so many things in common and therefore we tend to do thing together. We enjoy together and suffer together. This is such a true friendship that we think we will never ever loose. However,have you ever heard that your very closed friends talk bad things behind your back in some reasons? How did you feel? Hurt? and vow to hate that friend for the rest of your life? I am sure you must felt it and me too.
I'll never forget the look of betrayal written all over my friend's face. And it make me felt so bad after all. Let me tell you one thing i learn from this lesson. The thing is if you betray your friends in any reason or just for fun by talking behind your friend's back then you are only hurting yourself in two ways.
One is if he/she heard your talk he/she definitely feel not good to you and maybe thinking to make some troubles to you back. The second one is you make withdrawals from everyone of trust and they will never believe in you again.
Please remember that loyal people keep secrets and avoid gossip!
We are friends coz we have so many things in common and therefore we tend to do thing together. We enjoy together and suffer together. This is such a true friendship that we think we will never ever loose. However,have you ever heard that your very closed friends talk bad things behind your back in some reasons? How did you feel? Hurt? and vow to hate that friend for the rest of your life? I am sure you must felt it and me too.
I'll never forget the look of betrayal written all over my friend's face. And it make me felt so bad after all. Let me tell you one thing i learn from this lesson. The thing is if you betray your friends in any reason or just for fun by talking behind your friend's back then you are only hurting yourself in two ways.
One is if he/she heard your talk he/she definitely feel not good to you and maybe thinking to make some troubles to you back. The second one is you make withdrawals from everyone of trust and they will never believe in you again.
Please remember that loyal people keep secrets and avoid gossip!
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