Paradigm is a general point of view of a particular topic. There can be a paradigm of life or paradigm of self and many others. A paradigm is like a glasses that you wear. So if you have a incomplete paradigms or we can say low paradigm about yourself or life in general, it's like wearing glasses with the wrong prescription. Have you ever heard the phrase say "what you see is what you got"? that is if you believed yourself dumb, that concept will make you dumb. If you think your friend is dumb then you will try to find evidence to support your ideas and your friend will remained dumb in your eyes.
I want to share with you about how I see myself in the last few years. When I studied at primary school, my teacher taught us how to dance and how to sing. One day my teacher gave me a chance to dance in front of the classes. Immediately I started to move my hands, my friends started to laugh and made fun of my gesture. I was very shy and thought that i was very bad at it and can never be able to dance as others. I vowed to myself that I will never dace again in my life. Luckily, when I got into college my friends always insisted me again and again to try dancing. They even taught me how to dance. After a few times of dancing with my friends, I felt better toward myself, I felt like I had removed an obstacle from myself and wanted to improve more. When I finished university, I got a job and then the time for party was coming and also the chances for dancing as well. I improved a lots since then. Now I see myself as other people that can dance and sing. Thanks to my friends, especially Borey who always willing to help and teach me dancing.
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