After spending sometime joining a gossip talk with some friends, I realized that it's not the fun thing to do and should never be part of the gossip group again.
We are friends coz we have so many things in common and therefore we tend to do thing together. We enjoy together and suffer together. This is such a true friendship that we think we will never ever loose. However,have you ever heard that your very closed friends talk bad things behind your back in some reasons? How did you feel? Hurt? and vow to hate that friend for the rest of your life? I am sure you must felt it and me too.
I'll never forget the look of betrayal written all over my friend's face. And it make me felt so bad after all. Let me tell you one thing i learn from this lesson. The thing is if you betray your friends in any reason or just for fun by talking behind your friend's back then you are only hurting yourself in two ways.
One is if he/she heard your talk he/she definitely feel not good to you and maybe thinking to make some troubles to you back. The second one is you make withdrawals from everyone of trust and they will never believe in you again.
Please remember that loyal people keep secrets and avoid gossip!
You're right. Friendship is about love, respect and dignity. If a person is going to go behind your back and talk trash about you, then he/she is not really your friend. Friendship in reality is about caring for one another. You will not be judged because of the way you look, what you have, or what your beliefs are, but it is about honoring those aspects about you.
ReplyDeleteYeah, i agree with you. Friendship is about caring each others not about talking bad behind one another. Thanks for your idea
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. But we need to discourage gossip, even if a friend indulge in it.
ReplyDeleteCan I comment on the heading of your blog? I tend to disagree with it altogether. I believe that life is a play. Enjoy!
Yeah, i would say i have never willing to join a gossip before and now i definitely hat it. I will try to stop my friends from doing this.
ReplyDeleteHmm... my heading? It's sound not so good i think so. Even sometime life is a bit difficult but it's always full of joy as long as we make ourselves happy! Thanks for this comment i will change it.